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Some years ago, a woman named Rachel Kauder Nalebuff approached me about doing an essay about my first period for a book she wanted to have published. She told me it was going to be about women's first periods, about a lot of different women's personal experiences, to be shared with anybody who wanted to learn about it, deal with their own first times, and discover this happens to a lot of people in different ways. She didn't have a publisher at the time, but she was positive that she would find one. Talking to her, I believed she would find one, too, so I wrote a short essay about my own first period, from when my mother still had a grip on things and had taught me what to expect.



MY LITTLE RED BOOK was published in February 2009.

It's a great book, for girls just learning about menstruation and for women looking to see what kinds of experience other women had when they encountered this particular step toward adulthood. You also get to see a new face of a favorite author: Rachel got writers like Erica Jong, Gloria Steinem, Cecily von Zeigesar, Meg Cabot, and me to contribute. There are stories from all over the world and over the last seventy years, showing how times and attitudes change.

Give it to a friend for her birthdays, bridal, or baby shower. Give it to a mom who helped you through those first strange days, or the girlfriend who gave you a better way to look at it. Give it to a guy who's just moved in with his first girlfriend, or a young father with his first daughter. Take the last shame off our periods!

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silvertwi
Jul. 20th, 2009 05:55 pm (UTC)
Wow. Great concept. I shall have to keep it in mind for the distant future when I have a daughter...or for the few female cousins I have who haven't reached puberty yet.

...come to think of it, I have an awful lot of male cousins. Why are we so female-deficient? The last generation was dominated by girls. (Sorry, sudden thought.)
blue_shadows9
Jul. 20th, 2009 07:06 pm (UTC)
I heard about that book, and was interested to learn that you'd contributed. I really appreciate, by the way, that you wrote about Alanna's first period. It was hysterical, for one thing, and it's really great to see such a common female experience actually dealt with like that instead of just ignored or glossed over.
tammypierce
Aug. 11th, 2009 04:14 pm (UTC)
I really appreciate, by the way, that you wrote about Alanna's first period

I haven't done it since only because I've been picking the girls up after their periods have begun. I do mention feminine supplies when it's not awkward.

I'm glad you liked it. I tried to do the opposite of my own experience, particularly since Alanna had no knowledge of what was going to happen!
alanna_cooper
Jul. 20th, 2009 07:26 pm (UTC)
Cool! Thanks for sharing this.

And since I'm making a comment anyway, thanks again for all of your work. I've been re-reading every book since I busted out Alanna to calm me and give me courage when I was moving. Since I re-read those, I haven't been able to stop. I love your books more with every reading. They are so rich in life.
tammypierce
Aug. 11th, 2009 04:16 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much for your compliments, even when my thanks come a bit late. I really appreciate what you had to say!
rivkaesque
Jul. 20th, 2009 10:13 pm (UTC)
I'd heard about this! My first time story is dear to my heart, so i was curious about other women - I should really got pick that up.
morpheus0013
Jul. 20th, 2009 10:37 pm (UTC)
I actually bought this book a couple months ago, based largely on the fact that you were in it. *heh*
hazelwitch
Jul. 21st, 2009 12:06 am (UTC)
I love this book! I did a search in my library at Georgia State, and your name came up as an author, so I checked it out. The variety of experiences surrounding this event are just astonishing and made me realize that I was lucky that my own went fairly smoothly.
tammypierce
Aug. 11th, 2009 04:16 pm (UTC)
I was lucky that my own went fairly smoothly.

Me, too. Life is so much better that way!
skjaere
Jul. 21st, 2009 12:15 am (UTC)
Thank you for the recommendation. I'm not at an age where I know many girls who are undergoing this experience, but I do have a 12-year-old cousin, and I passed your recommendation on to her mom.
stephaniesmom
Jul. 21st, 2009 12:30 am (UTC)
Wow, very cool! Mt own first time was not a very good, or smooth thing, and I wish that on no-one! I will certainly buy many copies, and pass them around to every young girl I can!
tammypierce
Aug. 11th, 2009 04:17 pm (UTC)
Mt own first time was not a very good, or smooth thing

I'm so sorry--nobody should have that in this day and age!
stephaniesmom
Aug. 11th, 2009 05:22 pm (UTC)
My step-mother was from Germany. Had no concept of how to discuss anything with me. Never got any of the "Birds and the Bees" type stuff, but that's what I had friends and the library and Judy Blume for, right?
med_ieval05
Jul. 21st, 2009 02:17 am (UTC)
that's really funny 'cause I learned about menstruation from the Alanna books.
crescy
Jul. 31st, 2009 01:51 am (UTC)
bwahaha, same here!!! XDDDDD

so i wasn't entirely freaked out when i got my first period. i WAS, however, shocked at how long each one lasted, though. T.T
milinkalap
Jul. 21st, 2009 05:12 am (UTC)
Wow that is awesome! I wish this book was around during my first period. I have a feeling it would have helped a lot. Definitely going to gift it to a younger cousin of mine.
thumbelinablues
Jul. 22nd, 2009 02:52 pm (UTC)
I haven't had a chance to look through this one, but I heard about it from an old teacher of mine who had Rachel in class - go, Choaties! :0)
tammypierce
Aug. 11th, 2009 04:18 pm (UTC)
go, Choaties!

Yeah, Choate turns out a good one now and then. ;-)
radicalemily
Aug. 30th, 2009 02:39 am (UTC)
A little late, I know, but I just wanted to say: what a cool idea for a book! One of my favorite parts of the Alanna story was when she started her period, simply because how often is that event actually mentioned in any type of media? I'm going to go find this book and recommend it to all the girls I know.
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